Sigma Phi Epsilon is not immune to the tragedies and crises that have struck the college fraternity population with alarming frequency over the past decade. As leaders and volunteers working with student chapters, we must be prepared to meet the needs of any crisis we face. Here are some basic guidelines in case of an emergency. Review this plan with the chapter before a problem occurs.
At the chapter level, the president of the chapter should take charge in any crisis. The president should consult with volunteers, Headquarters staff and other members who possess more expertise or insight. The final decision, however, must rest with the president. All chapter officers should know where to find a copy of the chapter’s emergency procedures.
If contacted, only the president or chapter counselor should speak for the chapter. Avoid “no comment” as it leads to speculation. Instead, make a simple statement: “We are aware that an incident occurred and are cooperating fully with the police and university officials who are investigating.” Keep repeating the above statement if you are pursued further. Do not give in because you are asked the same question several different ways. Never release names or admit liability. Depending on the circumstances, the national Headquarters may take over any direct contact with the media including the issuance of a press statement.
DO NOT NOTIFY THE PARENTS. Medical or police personnel who are trained in this will notify the family. You should always have parent/guardian information on file available to proper authorities. After you know that the family has been notified, it is appropriate for a chapter representative to call and share your concern.
In the event of a death, do not remove any personal items from the room. Do not let members enter the room. Allow only authorized personnel to enter the room. If possible, keep the door locked. Ask the family what their wishes are in regard to the member’s possessions. You may offer to pack them in boxes, but it is more likely that the family will want to do this themselves. Before they arrive, be sure that any borrowed items are returned. When the family arrives, have empty boxes available and offer your help. Understand that this is a difficult time for them and they may want privacy.
Coordinate member attendance at the funeral or memorial service. Along with your chapter counselor, discuss with the family or the family’s clergyman the possibility of conducting Sigma Phi Epsilon’s memorial service, which is available through Headquarters.
In the case of serious injury or illness, find out the visitation wishes of the family and coordinate this with members of the chapter.
University staff is usually available for member counseling and general assistance. Individual and group counseling is strongly recommended after a death or serious injury.