What is sexual abuse?

Sexual harassment is defined as the unwelcome, unreciprocated imposition of sexual attention, usually in the context of a relationship of unequal power.

Sexual assault or rape is defined as an act of sexual contact or penetration with a person against his/her will. A person commits criminal sexual assault if he or she:

• Commits an act of sexual penetration by use of force or threat of force; or
• Commits an act of sexual penetration and the accused victim is unable to understand the nature of the act or was unable to give consent.

It is extremely important to make sure both partners are fully conscious and are equally free to act. Do not have sex with a partner who is drugged, intoxicated, passed out, or incapable of saying “no.”

Listen carefully to what your partner is saying, and if you are receiving mixed messages, make sure you get clarification. No means no! If your partner says no to sexual contact then stop. Never use force in a sexual situation.

There are many types of sexually abusive behavior.

Verbal Abuse may include:

• Whistling
• Humor and jokes about sex or male or female specific traits
• Suggestive or insulting sounds
• Sexual innuendos about your or someone else’s personal appearance
• Sexual innuendos about your or someone else’s sexual activities

Physical Abuse may include:

• Any inappropriate touching, pinching or patting
• Brushing against someone else’s body
• Coerced sexual intercourse
• Assault